Unexpectedly Expecting.

The Birth.

2010-09-14T20:18:00.000-07:00

I've been meaning to write down Zooey's birth story, so here it is from memory. Might be a little rough in some places, but hopefully I get all the details right.

I was induced August 11, 2010, at 6 pm with cytotech, due to increasing blood pressure and rapid growth of the baby. My midwife was concerned that Zooey was growing too large for me to deliver her naturally and that if I waited much longer, I would need a Cesarean. At this point, Zooey was five days past her due date, and I was growing exponentially by the minute! Ok, not really, but it felt like it!

After about 18 hours of cytotech administration, I was only dilated to a three, and Zooey was beginning to climb back up into my uterus rather than dropping further down into the birth canal. I had already received as many doses of cytotech as was allowed (four), and at this point was committed. I had to have the baby, no turning back now. My midwife recommended that we move things along by administering pitosin. I agreed, since waiting for labor to spontaneously begin would probably mean at least 24 MORE hours of labor, and probably a c-section due to lack of energy and therefore lack of ability to push her out when it was finally time. Nick and I took a little time to think and pray about the decision, and agreed that pitosin was the way we would choose to continue. The pitosin was administered and instantly my contractions, which before had been bearable, despite 18 hours of back labor, became unreal. The back labor intensified, and because I hadn't slept in over 24 hours, I was unable to handle the pain. After only 3 contractions following the pitosin administration, my midwife told me through my screams that I needed to find a way to handle the pain and control my breathing, or I needed to consider an epidural. I tried everything I knew and a few things that my midwife suggested to handle the pain, but nothing made it bearable. I knew that if I continued to try to cope with the contractions on my own, I wouldn't have enough energy to push. I decided to go ahead with the epidural. The anesthesiologist came in and quickly administered the epidural, at which point I felt immediate relief.

Up until this point I had been having mild anxiety attacks, but hadn't mentioned them to my midwife because I thought them to be irrelevant. I had been coping just fine, but when they gave me the pitosin and the epidural, my anxiety attacks increased in frequency and intensity. I had a monitor on my finger recording my heart rate, and when my heart rate began to spike because of the anxiety attacks, I was given an oxygen mask to regulate my rapid and shallow breathing. Finally my heart rate regulated itself, and my breathing became more regular. I was unable to get up because of the epidural, so a catheter was also installed.

I quickly dilated to a 10, and felt an overwhelming urge to push. I informed the nurse, and she called my midwife to the room. The catheter was removed, and everything was set up for a normal delivery. Zooey's heart rate and position were good, and my midwife told me to go ahead and push, after giving instructions for how to do so properly and effectively. At this point, it was August 12, 2010, at roughly 6 pm. I was so exhausted at this point that while I was pushing hard and strong during the contractions, in between each one I passed out and slept for about two minutes before the next set of pushes. This went on for about an hour, and we were making great progress until Zooey's right shoulder got caught under my pelvic bone. The doctor above my midwife was called in, and he said that if I couldn't get her out in the next two pushes, they would do an emergency c-section. My midwife, bless her heart, said firmly, "No! We are giving her more of a chance than that before we give her a c-section! She has been really strong up until now, and she can get this baby out on her own!" The doctor agreed to give me a little more time. At this point, a Code McRoberts had been called, which meant that every available nurse was to drop everything and run to the room where the code was called. It is one of the most dangerous situations, as the baby's oxygen supply is cut off, and the shoulders are stuck. The doctor and midwife reached inside with their hands and squished her shoulders just a little, just enough to get Zooey free. At this point, I was so out of it that I simply thought, wow, it takes a lot of people to birth a baby! There were about ten more nurses in my room than when I started. I was unaware until now that there was any problem at all, and even then I wasn't very worried, probably due to ignorance (I had no idea that anything was actually wrong), sheer exhaustion and confusion. My midwife spoke to me and said that I needed to push harder than I ever had before, and that I needed to get her out immediately. I bore down and gathered up all the strength I could find. I pushed as hard as I possibly could, and felt a burning sensation as she came out. The Lord was so faithful, and in a few minutes, Zooey Michaela Dertinger was born.
As a result of her shoulder being caught, her right clavicle was fractured. Due to a lack of oxygen, she was little blue, and they had to bag her in order to help her start breathing. Zooey responded very well and quickly. She spent the night in the nursery and wasn't allowed to leave the area.
I found out later than I had been given a "generous" episiotomy, and wasn't allowed to get out of bed.

Zooey snapped around quickly and started doing quite well very soon. I was recovering well, and we were discharged after a few days.

Zooey's clavicle is now healed completely, and she handles herself quite well.

That's all I can recall for now, and I am falling asleep. Perhaps more will come to me eventually but for now it is bed time before Zooey decides it is time to get up.

T minus any day now...

2010-07-29T18:49:00.000-07:00

It's the waiting game! (:

Nicholas and I are currently staying with his parents in Joliet, IL, until D-Day, by our midwife's request. Had one of our last checkups yesterday, and the baby's head is in the birth canal. We are go for launch! We just don't know exactly when launch is yet, haha! The midwife says that any day now could be the day. Could be tonight, tomorrow, two weeks from now, anytime.

Nick is working hard every night, and we are slowly getting accustomed to the new schedule.

Sorry the update is so short, but there is not much to tell just yet. All is going well, and we are SO EXCITED to meet our little girl!!!!

Love. (:

Contractions Are Fun.

2010-07-07T11:26:00.000-07:00

Just kidding. They're terrible. Not fun at all. But I think that if the right people were here right now, I could be having a lot of fun. Mostly because I slept about a grand total of two hours last night. I get really painful contractions every time I lie down. So I don't lie down. They subside/cease when I stand up, walk around, sit. Anything that's not lying down, and I feel much better. BUT. Sleep is supposed to happen WHEN YOU'RE LYING DOWN. So please, please, if you have a heart, pray that I can get some sleep. I would love to lie down again. The real kicker is that I don't even know if these are real contractions or Braxton Hicks/false labor. Who knows for sure.

On a happy note, my sister gave birth (albeit prematurely) to healthy twin girls yesterday! Yay! We are very happy that everyone is doing so well, and it sounds like we will continue to have good reports. (:

More praises: We have been blessed with a car to use, and a much better job for Nicholas! He is starting work today, and will make more than he did before, which is great! Praise the Lord for His provision! We are so grateful and thrilled. Nicholas will be working nights, so during the day our little family will be home together. I am thinking that there will be a designated family "naptime", about which I am very excited. (: Everyone sleep!

That's enough for now. I'm going to pee for the thousandth time.

Life Lived in June

2010-06-01T07:37:00.001-07:00

I'm pretty sure it's a summer thing, but I always feel so hopeful and strong, so awake and alive when June comes around. That is how I feel now, in our new apartment, confidently typing my heart out onto this little blog, and determinedly munching raisin toast. I have a kitchen table and a potato bin. My dishes all fit in the cupboards, as do my silverware, and i have a place to put my canned goods and my toaster. My microwave is set up. I planted herbs last night, Rosemary, Thyme, and Basil. I can't wait for the Basil especially. Basil is my friend. I like to add Basil to almost everything, and when Basil is fresh, I get all excited about it. It makes me sprinkle it all around the kitchen, and then hurriedly salvage as much of it as possible, because I don't know for sure when I will get more fresh Basil, so I had better use it wisely.

My fingers and toes are no longer swollen. It's because I'm sitting in an air-conditioned room, I know. But it makes me feel good to know that they are not swollen anymore. I'm alive, and I have a healthy baby growing inside me. I can't believe I am seven months pregnant already! So much has happened since we've been married for these ten months...

"The book of love is long and boring; no one can lift the dang thing. It's full of charts and facts and figures, and instructions for dancing. But I, I love it when you read to me. And you, you can read me anything. The book of love has music in it, in fact that's where music comes from. Some of it's just transcendental, some of it's just really dumb. But I, I love it when you sing to me. And you, you can sing me anything. The book of love is long and boring, and written very long ago. It's full of flowers and heart-shaped boxes, and things we're all too young to know. But I, I love it when you give me things. And you, you want to give me wedding rings. And I, I love it when you give me things. And you, you want to give me wedding rings."

Peter Gabriel, you know how to make my heart cry.

Anyway. This was supposed to be an update on our new place, not a sappy rambling. So. About the new place. We moved in Saturday. And my parents, lovely parents, stayed and helped us set up for many, many hours after everyone else had left. They stayed until 8 o'clock that night, and by the time they left, we had vertical blinds hanging, the kitchen completely set up, the living room completely set up, the bedroom nearly completely set up, and the nursery a little better organized. Oh, and the bathroom was completely unpacked as well, and decorated to boot! My parents have already been SUCH a blessing. Nicholas went back to the city Sunday and painted the old apartment back white for the new tenant, and my parents let him borrow their car to get to the train station, too. As if they hadn't already done enough, they had us over for a cookout yesterday, and let me make a mess of their kitchen in my first attempt at spinach-artichoke dip (which is one of God's greatest creations, I'm telling you), and helped me when I didn't have enough hands for it, and complimented me on it all over the place when it was done, even though everyone in the house had helped me make it. My dad, Nicholas and I scraped the artichokes, my mom continually cleaned up after me, and helped me know what a "slow" boil was, checked the artichokes for me, Nicholas mixed the cream cheese and mascarpone cheese mixture when my arms were too sore, my dad grilled the bread and showed me how to chop fresh spinach (it's harder than it sounds--flimsy little buggers), and my mom helped me with the spices. Nicholas helped me wring out the lemons. My mom washed all the dishes. Poor mom. What a mom.

Anyway. The new place, not sentimental ramblings about cookouts and parents. Though they do deserve a tribute.

Ok. It is HUGE! I am loving it already. It's quiet. So lovely to be able to sleep at night without people shouting and screaming right outside your bedroom (or living room, as is the case right now. We haven't received our mattress set yet, so we are sleeping on an air mattress in the living room. Why the living room? Because it's the coolest room in the place, and has an air conditioner in it.) It's shaping up very nicely. Sometime I will think to post pictures. (: But not until after it's COMPLETELY organized.

Things we are still praying/looking for: a car and a sofa. We have a bus, but it only runs once an hour, so that's not the best for getting to work, and it stops running at 9 pm, which means that if Nicholas works late, he has no way to get home. Also, groceries on the bus while seven months pregnant is not very easy. We also need a car for my prenatal visits, one of which is the day after tomorrow, and we have no way to get there as of right now. At this point especially, I'm not really allowed to just skip my appointments. So please pray extra hard for the car.

And as for the sofa. We have a small recliner and a rocking chair, the extent of our living room furniture that can be sat upon. (: Please pray for that, but not half as hard as for the car. HA! (: But seriously. We really need the car worse.

Alright. The day is ready to sort. And the chicken thighs need to come out of the freezer to thaw out for dinner tonight. Thanks to all of you who helped us move, and gave us lovely gifts in the two short days that we've been here, already! We are blessed.

In His love and ours.

The Current Status of Things.

2010-05-03T15:54:00.001-07:00

Our apartment is a wreck, filled with boxes and partly-packed things; but it means that we are getting closer to moving, for which we are grateful. Nicholas has a part-time job secured at the Best Buy in DeKalb, and would love to be full-time, but they are not accepting full-time transfers as of right now, so we will figure out a way to make it; Nick may wind up working two part-time jobs for a while, and I will probably start babysitting.

Sidenote: I can't believe that some women run while they're pregnant! I simply waddle fast, and that's even an accomplishment.

Anyway.

Back to what's important. We will be moving Memorial Day weekend, and would greatly appreciate your prayers, as that is right around the time that Nick will end his position at the Chicago Best Buy. We are sad that he has to go, and are praying for something good to replace it. He has continued to impress his employers and managers with his excellent work and honesty, so please pray that the good vibes will be carried over into the DeKalb store.

I am working on finishing up the semester, trying to get it all done in the next two weeks! Wow. I can't believe that's all there is left of this semester, but I am incredibly grateful that it is such. I have a few loose ends to tie up, such as intermission forms and overcut appeals (please pray for those--I had to overcut a few classes due to illness and prenatal checkups, and have to appeal to the school to excuse the cuts without penalizing my grade). Tomorrow is the last day to turn it all in, so I am going to be running around quite a lot tomorrow, from office to office, trying to get my forms all signed. Please pray for me as the workload is all coming to a close, but there is still so much to be done!

We are continuing to grow together, Zooey and I, and Nicholas and I can't wait for her to get here!

Until further notice, we are here...

packing.

A Signed Lease and About Ten Boxes Later...

2010-04-24T12:08:00.000-07:00

And Nicholas and baby Zooey and I will be moving. Our lease begins June 1, and we will be moving shortly before, as long as we get approval to put things in the apartment a few days early. Today I am recovering from a nasty illness and packing up books. The boxes are all lined up like little soldiers underneath our tall countertop separating kitchen from living room, and as I look around, I think I might just miss this place a little. We have some very fond and ridiculous memories stored here, in these counters and walls and windows.

But I think our new apartment will hold just as many nice memories for us--more, even. We will have little Zooey Michaela there, and she will come home to that apartment, not this one, and that will be our home for a year. Even more time than we will have spent here at this place. My heart does still ache a little for this place, though. It was our first home, where we learned so much about each other, and have had so many disastrous dinners and mistakes...many of them mine...and where Nicholas set up our very first Christmas tree, and learned that we are living on love.

Enough sappy stuff. (: Time to pack the boxes! And have some chicken minestrone soup. (:

The Play.

2010-04-21T18:52:00.000-07:00

It feels like hot candle wax is pent up inside my face. That's about how this head-cold feels. Uncomfortable. But it will be over soon enough.

We finished our closing show last night. I hadn't realized how much of a creative outlet it had become for me until today, when I corrected my thoughts, reminding myself that I didn't have play practice tonight or tomorrow night, either, for that matter.

Instead, I am gearing up for a whole new life. Motherhood. Continuing in the role of wife. Living in a small town, rather than a big city. Having a car again? I'm not sure I know how to drive anymore! Staying home with our little girl, Zooey, and cooking dinner for my husband when he gets home from work. A lot less out-and-about...just as busy? Maybe. Probably. I can't imagine being mother to a newborn and not being just as busy, if not more so, than I am now. But I don't think I will dislike my time off from school, either. I am already dreading the spring semester when I will return. And I haven't even experienced the break yet. I don't want to leave my little girl home with someone else. I want to be a mom, a stay-at-home mom, and already have my degree, and have already done my internship, and not have to think about whether she is being taken care of according to my specifications, or be sure to make my train.

But this will come in time. I will need to finish, to persevere, to have strength until the end. It is very daunting.

I'd like to start painting more again. Today is not the day for it, because I'm quite sure I would come out with a brown mess on a ruined canvas, simply because my brain is far too fuzzy. I can't quite tell if my fever is going up again...I would really rather not take more tylenol. I'm biased against the stuff. But soon, I will paint again. Very soon. I can't stand to not paint. It makes me crazy.

Maybe someday I could sell a painting or two. It's doubtful. But I've always dreamt of selling an art-form of some kind. Maybe someday.

Waiting for Nicholas to get off work, I tried to study for a little. Yeah, right. Because I'm lucid enough for that. Everything I tried came out wrong. Even the homework I did for Dr. V today was so messed up. I hope that he remembers my inability to focus today. He probably will. What a great professor. He always asks how I'm doing. Always asks about little Zooey. Always tells me to rest. It is nice to have a professor say that, as opposed to, "You're late!" or "You've over-cut!" or "Why do you need so many prenatal checkups?" or my all-time favourite, "I can't do anything to help you." Truthfully, though, I think I need to experience all this. So that someday, when I may be a professor, I can be strong in my convictions, and yet understanding enough to recognize when a student just plain out needs a break. You'd think that being a pregnant wife who attends school full-time would be a pretty good reason for that, just like someone who breaks their leg or gets pneumonia.

This post is going to be way to honest, I'm sure. It's the fever talking. I had better go find a thermometer.

Zooey Michaela.

2010-04-18T09:03:00.001-07:00

We are having a girl. A little girl. (: She is beautiful, we can already tell. Oh, the Lord has wrought us wonderfully!

Praying For Houses...

2010-03-21T07:37:00.001-07:00

To me, praying for a house seemed so impossible and above what we deserve, considering we have been married so little time and we don't really have all the resources to buy a home, it would seem. A friend reminded me (thanks, Anna :) the other night that God won't be upset if I pray and ask Him for a house. What's the worst He could say? No? Ok. I would live. So, yesterday, I started asking God for a house.

Now. Let me tell you why we would like to have a house of our own rather than rent for another year first.

We don't really have the money to keep renting. Sounds crazy, but buying a house turns out to be cheaper not only in the long run but also a lot of times in the short run, than renting. I would also love to have some space for the baby's playthings and our ridiculous amount of books. Nick and I would love to have something to call our own, a home that we can take care of and fix up, in which we don't have to rely on someone else to recognize and then fix a problem, like one does in a rental situation. We'd love to have a yard for the baby, so that s/he can sit outside with Mommy while she gardens. Children with yards seem so much happier to me than children without yards. We spend so much on rent right now that it's difficult to not be discouraged and overwhelmed with it all.

We are looking for a home with two bedrooms, more is ok, but not necessary. We are ok if it's a fixer-upper, but we don't want to have to replace the roof, and problems with the foundation are out of the question. Nicholas knows how to do quite a few handy-man things around the house, as do his father and mine. We would have plenty of help, and we know that we could do it. All that we desire is that it be in livable condition upon purchase, which would be a stipulation of the bank as well.

Our budget is low. We are still asking God for a house, though! Please pray with us for a house so that we can settle somewhere at least semi-permanently and provide as much stability as possible for our baby on the way.

Speaking of the baby, here is a quick little update: metabolic panel on me came back good, had our first ultrasound not long ago (so amazing to see the baby moving around!), our next ultrasound is coming up soon (we will find out if baby is a boy or a girl!), and s/he is moving around and kicking quite a lot these days! Nick got to feel the baby kick for the first time the other night, and his face was priceless; I couldn't help laughing. Baby loves movement, and if I sit down for even a five or ten minute break, jabs and kicks, elbows across my belly, those are the kinds of things I get haha! Baby also loves music, and we are convinced will be a fantastic dancer. We are loving it, and can't wait for the adventures that come! But we are savoring this one that is happening right now, as well.

Please thank God with us that our baby is healthy so far, and that all things are continuing as normal with my pregnancy. Please pray with us for a house. God knows His will, and He will make it plain when the time is right.

Godspeed.

Dinner? Dress? Beach?

2010-02-25T07:45:00.000-08:00

I am slowly getting over the flu, and Nicholas is getting over what we think is his first kidney stone...ouch!

Listening to David Gray singing, "This ain't no love that's guiding me..." and reminding myself that he is wrong, dead wrong. That God's love is guiding Nicholas and me, and we can trust His hand.

The baby is growing, and God's Spirit is within me shaping this baby, turning him/her into the person He has planned.

Nicholas and I are looking for a place to move, nearby. Planning on renting for another year or so, then we can take our time in buying. If we attempted it now, it would be so rushed.

I am trying so hard to trust in God for all this. It is so hard. I have my next prenatal check-up on Wednesday, March 3. I have been having eye trouble and getting lots of headaches and low-grade fevers. Please pray that we find some answers, and that everything is really alright.

My summer class that I needed was closed before I could register, due to website hiccups. Trying to get in now, past the "limit." Pray for that as well.

Pray for patience. I need an extra measure of it.

That's all for now.

Stuck In Bed.

2010-02-21T10:17:00.000-08:00

Yesterday and today have been bad days. I have to be truthful. I hate the stomach flu more than anything else. I'd also like to know why no one has cured it yet.

I am stuck in bed with it, and am so sadly weak from not being able to keep anything down that when I walk across my tiny apartment, I feel like I've run the length of a football field.

This too shall pass.

Waiting to see if I will make it to school tomorrow. Can't take too many cuts, but this pregnancy business is really starting to take its toll. Trying to keep up with school and play practices while a baby's growing inside me is turning out to be much harder than I thought it would be.

Nicholas is working hard, working full time now at Best Buy, and has a review in about a month and a half, at which point he will hopefully get a raise! Pray for that.

Time for me to go.

Maybe tomorrow I will be better.

Big Little Changes...

2010-01-24T09:34:00.000-08:00

In case any of you are wondering how our preparations for missions are going, well, this is your answer! They're not, haha!

Our missions trip has been temporarily put on hold. We found out about a month ago that we are expecting our first child! We are so thrilled to be so blessed by God, even though it wasn't in our plan!

The doctor says, "No traveling to malaria-riddled countries!" So we will be waiting to go to PNG, but are still in good contact with PBT, and maintaining some wonderful friendships there, particularly with Nathan Davenport and his family. They have been and continue to be such an enormous blessing to us!

Nicholas is interviewing for a full-time position at his job at Best-Buy today. We are praying that God will choose to bless us in this way, as it would give us otherwise unobtainable insurance and family benefits, not to mention more hours for Nicholas! Please join us in prayer for God's breakthrough financially and especially with insurance.

Part of what this means is that the name of this blog will be changing! We will now be called "Unexpectedly Expecting." (: Thank you, Sarah Hoobyar.

Joy has her first ultrasound on Feb. 3, as the doctor has been unable to pin down a due date as of yet. We are guessing that Joy is ending her first trimester, beginning her second, based on the way she feels, the dissipation of morning sickness, and energy and tummy size increasing. :) It looks like we will be having a late July or early August baby! Please pray that this goes well, and that we have a healthy baby boy or girl!

Joy is planning to stretch her last full-time semester at school into two part-time semesters, as she would like to be able to be home with the baby as much as possible. A schedule that is as fast-paced as a full-time semester so quickly after delivery may be detrimental to her health, in addition.

We will be looking for a place to live this summer, shortly after school gets out, as the baby will clearly not fit where we live now. (If you've seen it, you'll understand.) We are praying for an affordable house to rent in the suburbs, so that we can commute to the city if we need to, and also have a real house and a yard.

As an additional prayer request, we ask that you would keep our friends Jess and Micah in your prayers. They are leaving for a week in Haiti, working, evangelizing, and providing medical attention after the terrible happenings there. They will be there during the first week of February. They are an amazing couple, on fire for the Lord, and full of zeal for His house! The most important thing in the world to them is others' salvation. They are in need of $400 each, and need to raise it all in the next week. Please pray that God provides for their needs!

Thank you all so much for partnering with us this far, and we pray that you will continue to partner with us as we embark on the adventure that is parenthood! We are still planning on going to PNG with PBT, but it will be a few years, now, before we are able. Please continue to pray for us, as we are new to all of this parenting business and are trying to do it in a way that is God-honoring.

Much love to you all, and may God bless you!

Merry Christmas!

2009-12-06T19:01:00.000-08:00

I would just like to say how amazing my husband is. (:

Last night, I was at work at the Disney Store, closing, when little did I know, my fantastic husband was busy all over town and all over the apartment making sure that my Christmas was beautiful. Let me explain.

Our apartment really REALLY needed some help--reorganizing, cleaning, that kind of thing. We also had no Christmas Tree yet! Horror of horrors! We also had NO EGGNOG! What is a Christmas without eggnog?! So. Last night, while I was at work, even though he hates cleaning, he cleaned and reorganized the entire apartment, bought a little five-foot tree, lights, and set it up, complete with two little birds at the top instead of a star. He then proceeded to put the first gift under the tree, for me, and I came home to a beautifully clean apartment and a little Christmas tree lit with little white twinkly lights in the corner. Fantastic!

Then! As if that wasn't enough. He knows it's tradition for my family to watch "It's A Wonderful Life" and drink eggnog and listen to Christmas music and decorate the tree, all at the same time, and so he got eggnog (and ginger ale for me, because I'm sick), and ornaments, and "It's A Wonderful Life" he put in the movie player, and then he turned on Christmas music! All today. The best. Nicholas hates eggnog, so I drank a little, and we decorated our first Christmas Tree together. (:

I'm so happy to be married to this man, Nicholas Randall Dertinger. (:

Seriously. So happy.

waiting....waiting...waiting...

2009-11-30T22:35:00.000-08:00

So...quick little update...waiting for the school to approve our internship choice. Our paperwork for PBT is due tomorrow, so fingers crossed! If we don't have the approval by tomorrow morning, we'll go ahead and call Nathan Davenport, our missions rep, to explain what is going on, see if he can buy us an extra day or two.

Also, we are still searching for a church. We have, however, found one in Sugar Grove, IL, that seems like it may be a great fit for us! We are very interested, and would like to continue checking it out over the upcoming weeks. Sometimes work gets in the way, and we are attempting to properly balance it without being irresponsible on either end.

So excited for all the things it is possible for us to learn through this amazing process that God hands us, and called חיים.

Peace and blessings.

And the Application Process Goes On!

2009-11-13T17:53:00.001-08:00

We are in the process of filling out all of our paperwork for PBT...still. (:

There is so much! But we are so excited, and we can't wait for everything to be completed, and we are hoping and praying and crossing our fingers for those acceptance letters that will make us jump a little inside. (:

Please continue to pray for us and with us, as Joy begins her new job at the Disney Store on Sunday. This is an exciting opportunity for her to spread the Word of God in a friendly, yet not so Gospel-friendly, atmosphere!

We also ask that you pray for our fridge. Weird? Maybe. But we still need you to do it! The past few days it has been leaking water all over the kitchen floor. The maintenance guy stopped by today to check it out, and he said that the electricity in that particular outlet was only working sometimes, meaning that the fridge only got to run sometimes. He replaced the bracket, said it should be fine after that, and to call if there were any more problems. We're hoping that the water that is on the floor right now is just leftovers from when it ran under the stove. We shall see in a few short days. (:

Thank you so much for your prayers and support and encouragement!

Godspeed.

And the semester goes on...

2009-11-12T06:35:00.000-08:00

We are almost done!!!!! In just four short weeks, Nicholas will have his bachelor's in Communications Studies, and in another week after that, I will officially be a senior. We are so excited!

We pray that God will continue to keep us in His will, and we are still waiting. We will be finishing our applications soon, and sending them in, hoping and praying for the best!

This is just to let you know that we are still very much praying and desiring to go to Papua New Guinea, and trusting God that He will provide!

Thanks to you who are keeping up on all of this; it is truly an encouragement knowing that there are people praying for us!

News. (:

2009-10-30T21:37:00.001-07:00

Today we learned that Joy has the option of getting her Ph.D. in Australia at what seems to be a very prestigious university, recommended by her professor. This means that it will be close to home (Papua New Guinea is just off the coast of Australia), and we will be able to perhaps spend furlough time there, while Joy is working on her Ph.D.!

Nicholas is ill from lack of sleep, it seems, and we would greatly appreciate your prayers. One of his jobs has given him a few days off to recuperate, and this weekend will be a good time of rest for him.

Please pray for his continued safety, health, and school as he finishes his last semester in undergrad!

Godspeed.

PRO-ACTIVE PRAYER!

2009-10-21T04:53:00.000-07:00

Please join us as we pray pro-actively for one another Nov. 10-Nov. 11!

Pro-actively, meaning intense, making-a-point-of-it prayer. Please join us! Let us know who you are and if you have any prayer requests as well!

We are asking that people pray for our spiritual preparation especially. We can have all the funding and physical preparation in the whole world, but without being prepared spiritually, it's all meaningless.

Pray with us! Let us know who you are so we can pray for you!

Update #3!!! Wow, these are a lot of updates!

2009-10-16T14:59:00.002-07:00

10/16/09--Awesome meeting with Nathan! We know a lot better how to prepare for our summer now, as well as how to use it as a springboard for future full-time missions in PNG!

Update #2!

2009-10-16T14:59:00.001-07:00

10/15/09--We are meeting with Nathan Davenport, the leader of Pioneer Bible Translators, tomorrow for lunch. Pray that we will be able to discuss openly everything that this trip will entail.

We are also very excited because this will be the first summer that PBT does workshops (in PNG for those doing internships there) specific to Bible translation!!!! We are so thrilled at the opportunity to be a part of it!

The First Update of Many

2009-10-16T14:58:00.000-07:00

Please pray with us and for us as we prepare to take a three-month trip to Papua New Guinea this summer with Pioneer Bible Translators. The dates of our trip are May 29, 2010 to August 4, 2010. Our goal is to understand Bible translation better, learn more about PBT as an organization and find out if they are a good fit for us long-term, and to serve God in whatever way we can while in Papua New Guinea. We will be traveling all over PNG, moving from village to village observing, helping, and attending workshops on the Bible translation process. Our desire is to do Bible translation and church planting in PNG long-term, and this trip will greatly help us in either further confirmation from the Lord that this is where He is leading us, or direction from the Lord that PNG is not where He is sending us. Either way, we are sure that this will be a wonderful process and are placing it all in His hands.

Ways you can pray for us:

*Preparation--pray that in the coming months we will prepare not only our housing situation but also our hearts, being fully ready to trust God with anything that happens.

*A New Home--we will need to find a different apartment before or immediately after returning from PNG, as our lease will be up in July. Please pray that God leads us in this process and provides opportunities for us.

*Nick's Work--As we will need to be gone for about three months, and many jobs wouldn't allow an employee to take that much time off, please pray for added favor at Nicholas' places of employment--Best Buy and Moody Bible Institute. It is likely that by the time we leave for PNG, Nicholas will be full time with Best Buy and no longer an employee of Moody Bible Institute, however, no final decision on that particular matter has been made. We would ask for prayer that wherever Nicholas is working, he would be able to take this time off with no penalty, and be able to return to said workplace when we come back to the States.

*Health and Safety--Please pray that God will preserve us physically as well as spiritually, and that we will be healthy and safe while we are on our trip.

*School and Stress--Joy needs to take summer courses in order to graduate on time, but they may be immediately preceding the PNG trip (down to the day before). Please pray that the Lord will provide a way for her to take the necessary classes to graduate on time, but also to be prepared and calm for the trip.

*Funds--Last but not least, please pray for monetary provision for us. We need to raise roughly $11,000 for the two of us to go. We also will need to be able to pay for the three months of rent while we are gone. In addition, we will be taking an extreme cut in funds while gone as we will not have an income for those three months. Please pray that God will provide the necessary funds for us, and that we will trust Him completely to do so.